Measure... Plan... Live your dream!

What if we got promoted and our salary rose to two hundred thousand from just forty thousand per month.  Within three months we will become debtors (may be, I should say again). In the first month we will rock everybody by setting up parties every weekend. In the second month we will settle all the debts we owe and on third month we will plan and get marketing calls. Then we will buy a luxury home, Audi or BMW. These all can’t be done with just two hundred thousand. So we go for a loan, but we easily get a loan with our last three months payslip. As a result, we will end up paying interest every month and get back to office with the fear of losing the job.

This is how it ends and begins on every rise we get. In reality we do not just plan what we really want. Everybody has a dream to chase but each day end up in going to the office. We have heard a lot like, ‘want to fulfil my responsibilities... food for my family, children’s education, home, debts... Is it all about earning enough money? If yes, then first we must measure the term enough.

Measuring is important. In reality we pay more for luxury than what we really need for chasing our dreams. In the hierarchy of needs - food, clothing and shelter comes first, dream comes after. So we should be clear on what we want good tasty food or luxury food? They are very much different from one another. Good tasty food can be cooked with quality provisions or can be bought from a good hotel. Luxury food means having anything on Hilton, ITC and paying for their brand names. The same applies for dresses, houses and anything we spend on daily. We must be clear about the basic only then we can achieve one after another. When we are not clear on what we need then we do not achieve love or belonging and easily go for divorce and things get worse.

So firstly, we need to measure what we mean by ‘enough’.  Then secondly, the most important thing is savings, just saving 10%, 20% or even 30% of every month salary. That is good, but the question to be answered is for what we are saving? In some cases we earn to save, for the future, which is very much accepted as uncertain.

Here too we must plan, out of 10% cut it like 2% for emergency, 5% for children education and 3% to do things we love most. Spend it before we exhaust or expire on things we love most and dream to experience. For this, we will never need a raise of some 425%.

Never Sacrifice!

I remember once after proposal and acceptance we met in a restaurant to talk further. She asked me to take non-vegetarian meal though she doesn't like but I refused n took veg. After meal while we were returning she asked me, ‘why you didn't take non-veg meal... are you sacrificing your preference for me?’

‘Ah! Is it so?’

‘Hmmm’

‘Alright, if I offer you an apple n ice cream what will you choose?’

‘mmm... of course I go for ice cream’

‘huh, so you sacrifice an apple, don’t you?

‘Hey.. no, it’s... ... !’

Before she completes, ‘That’s how... I didn't n 'll never sacrifice anything for you.. .... I choose you out of everything...’

Complete Trade!

I have never seen a teacher they are wholesalers!

I never educated but got a material to sell!

I never learned how to lead my life but how to market myself!

I’m not in any place to enrich my knowledge – But

I’m in a market

I refined the articles there in the text books and showcasing my ability

It’s an auction happening over my buried dreams!

E very school is a wholesale market!

Every child is a retailer!

Every company is customer!

Everywhere it’s all just a trade!

Best Judge!

In a social network at the time when most of the people are talking about Sachin Tendulkar retirement I came across a note comparing him with Imran Khan, as Sachin Tendulkar built own house for millions and billions where Imran built free cancer institution. After reading this note something stroked me, we all are earning enough have we ever compared ourselves with Mr.Kalayanasundaram, a librarian who donated his 30 years salary and even his pension amount to needy.

As most of us would have no idea about who is Mr.Kalayanasundaram.. Please click here..

Have we ever tried to donate something from our every month salary? We would have 150 CC or 180 CC bikes which may cost 80K or 90K. Why is that we haven’t gone for XL super which cost only less than 20 thousand. So the rest we could have donated. So when we compare ourselves with Kalayanasundaram we should not even celebrate festivals and even our birthdays.

Here this man Sachin Tendulkar he worked for his passion and he achieved something that may take century to reach for anyone. So his retirement is celebrated by most of the cricket lovers. Then they are recognizing a player and this is not an event for social service and in that event Imran Khan may get better applause then Sachin and moreover we don’t know what Sachin Tendulkar contributed to needy.

We easily say they are wrong and these are right but we never judge ourselves and that’s the time we go completely wrong.  Every night we will not sleep as soon as we fall on bed (to sleep). It would be better if we recall the whole day from morning till the time we fell on bed what we have done and what went rightly and what really went wrong, what is our contribution to those beautiful right moments and the wrong moments instead of thinking anything.

Most importantly we should forgive ourselves for the mistakes we have did and very most important is make sure that we should never repeat the same mistake.

This is my love...

As everyone you may have many friends

There may be a guy

You may go out with them all every time

You may eat with them

Chat with them...

Laugh with them... all the time

Even at night

You may sit tight

At times you even say to me that you love to be with them

That never pinches my possessiveness

Time when you’re upset n cry for any reason...

Then someone from there consoles you

Made you smile

Only that pinches me

Piss me off...

That’ll ask me why I’m here when someone is take care of your smile!

SETTLED PERFECTLY

This blog could lead you to think like usual thought of one who gets into new job or new company, however really not if you experienced what I was earlier and somehow still. I thought of writing this on very first day of my induction that was February 1^st 2013. Due to some reasons I’m making it today.

At my first day of induction in there was a session by the director of that whole tower. I always see every induction as bullshit, because usually they all say about their hard works and achievements and what they’re expecting from new joiners. Here in that 45 minutes that man told or correctly highlighted this,

“If I ask what makes you to think about Shell then most of them would answer like pay. You know what comparatively here pay is lesser than my previous employers. But I’m here for around fifteen years. The reason behind is...

Okay... mmmm... I’ve two daughters. Earlier when anyone asks me how big is your daughter? I show like this (he stretched his hand horizontally). After joining Shell when anyone asks me the same question my answer is like? (He stretched his hand vertically). Yes that’s what happened in my pervious organization. In a thought of learning, getting promotion and things I work till late night so I just see my daughter while she was sleeping. When she woke up I’d be sleeping. But here, Shell taught me work like balance. Now I’m growing with my daughters, along with them. So if I see anyone working after working hours I’ll ask what really makes them to sit? Alright at some point everyone need to stretch, even I sit for 12 to 13 hours. But not often, then on very next day I work for only 5 or 6 hours. I’ll take some breaks to balance it.”

All I remember is that was November 30^th. Instead of four day close we are instructed to finish it all in a single day. We tried hard and we’re almost done. We were in office by 6am and the time was 12.30am that mean midnight, exactly next day. Where we see no exchange rates were updated on system so I told let we all leave and tomorrow is being weekend we can finish it all by then. But they made us to wait till 1.30am then we finished everything and left by 6.30am (That is December 1^st). Without even any questions they want all of us to come back by that noon to review our own work. We all came there and reviewed.

Then on that week I let the team to take some more breaks than usual. What else then they called our whole team and started teaching how to manage break timings. This is not just a one day story happened there every month we have to stay there for at least 16 to 17 hours during month close and at least two to three days every week. If anyone leaves on time, I mean on time, after 8 hours they will hear ‘hey, how is that you’re leaving early?’

Here now, when I stretch my senior is asking is that you’re overloaded if so report that too team manager immediately else your team manager would be in a trouble.  I could see lot of differences between these two organizations.

Once one of Assistant Manager took a girl mobile and asked her to unlock it and he commented dressings of that girl’s friend to her. I asked that girl to take that to HR department and at last the story ended like I created that story to impress that girl. I wonder how is that she‘ll impressed on me by making some manager a slut. If I really want to impress I’d have impressed her parents or her friends at least, that story really make no sense to me. Further to this that fellow broke into my office laptop and stole my personal data and shared with his team fellows who raised complaints against him. Just by thinking like I asked them to do. What really makes wonder is even we proved everything management took no action against him. But they told they had taken action but even now I could see someone is logging into my personal email ID with my old laptop. That’s sounds really great.

Here now, while writing some induction test I crossed this question,

What you’ll do if you’re seeing that something is not in order?

Options were A. I forget what I saw B. I contact conflict of interest team immediately C. I try to understand it better before I complaint D. If it’s nothing to with my work I forget.

I thought the apt answer would be C. But its B they say.

Actually option B was I did, without even asking or investigating I just shown a way to that girl to complaint. But in return action was taken against me and on that girl. Victims and evidence were brutally punished and the real accused fellow is guarded well there.

Finally here we celebrate family day yearly once, there we had one day to talk about values that too with drinks. I never say no one should ever booze if you want to booze, go ahead but my concern is about the freshers and mostly towards those who are staying away from their family. Are they intend to teach them how to booze. GM or Director of that corporate may be a role model of any fresher there. When they drunk and dance that moment will obviously pull those people to drink. It may be the freshers ignorance we say. What if your dad drink and smoke in front of their own children. Managers are in the position of their parents thought their role is to get the work done still they are. Matter of fact this habit may suitable for the western countries as per their weather conditions. What is the purpose of those alcoholic drinks here in 88°F.

What else to say more about... Below picture is a screenshot of an email I received officially from my current organization.

Rainy Independence Day

Morning ... August 15, 2013... Raining...

This rainy Independence Day pushed me to grow younger. I remember my school days, may be patriotism, I always want to go school on Independence Day but not my mom. We have parade on morning by 8am followed by that there will be speech competition then dance, price distribution and last sweet distribution. Hardly 4 hours.

I believe that should be on ninth standard, mean 15^th August 2000, and was raining heavily. My brother told like he’s not going to attend the school. My mom was looking at me. I smiled and told like I want to go. She shouted, ‘yes, he’s the chief guest. Without him nothing will happen in school. See, nobody goes only he’s going to hoist the flag. Go, you’ll find a board in front of your school gate saying no function today due to rain. Just for one to two hours you want to spoil that white shirt and shoe’.

By hearing all those words I just prepared myself to go school. By the time she stopped shouting or maybe just by seeing me in white shirt.

I went, no board was there and all my friends were there in parade line. I joined in that again a wonderful day.

But last weekend I asked my friend ‘you've holiday next week?’ he surprised me by asking ‘for what?’

I told this incident to my assistant manager, he gave me a shock by saying when his daughter told she has holiday on next week his reply was like is it for republic day.

I'm not saying this new BPO, MNC industries are changing us. We have some event or at least an email wishing Happy Independence Day. But it’s us forgetting our own days just by running behind money. We are marketing our knowledge on where we get good price, may be by working on BPO or MNC or working in abroad. So it’s our responsibility to keep our things safe to present that to our own next generation, nothing to blame our customers. Learn work life balance and know to differentiate work from life. Work is to earn n life is not only to live, it’s your responsible to design it.

I can't be goob :P

It’s me...

I never let any relationship get deep to me

But I plant one deep inside me

As they’re me...

Though I know that they gonna leave me...

I hardly trust one

And I pray that they should never understand me

Coz I love the pain of being abandoned

Dark after dark never show the difference

I go to the light... Brightest

Then I smash everything to feel the darkest dark

I lay on one shoulder

I rest on only one nest

I shut all the doors around

I set fire n wander like abandoned child

I love the pain...

It’s not the curse I walk alone

I love to walk like an orphan

As who cares

I run with my own legit

I never want anyone to get me rid out of it

I walk into it again n again

It’s me..

I create complication

I put myself in suffocation

I see myself suffering

I drown in my tears... Bleed... suffer

I never get upset...

If you see me dead

Then believe me I’m not the victim

I’d be the killer

But it never could be suicide

I’d have tested something...

It’s me

THIS IS MY LIFE!

Remember...
I cry

They may say that I’m missing beautiful life

I go mad

They may worry

I cry, I worry, I go mad but I know...

That I’m crying,

I’m worrying

I'm mad

There is hell of happiness in every corner of my cry

Though they try nobody can reach it

Don't pry in my life

This is my life!

After every whack I still stand

Don’t pretend my feelings

I never mind if you’re not understand

Though my sky s falling down I build it again

I’m not guzzler but hustler

This is my life!

They see me by being in their life

All the time I’m not standing with knife

I may be wounded but...

I hound my dreams, still it’s in my eyes

I shattered at times

But I’m not broken

So soon I can’t be better after bettered

I’m not shy n can’t sly

If I feel I’ll cry

HAPPILY ...

THIS IS MY LIFE!

You Taught Me!

I've slept on your chest till twelve

I was scared at the crowded bus

Holding your hands always brings the courage

I have seen the love between you and mom

Not any cinema taught me to love my girl.. It’s you...

Every morning mom kisses you on your forehead

I see n blush

You notice me.. Hit me on head n laugh

You know that I love you.. But

I’ve never told you that I too love chocolates

I love if you get me before I get into the school bus

I love jeans... but I’ve never asked you one...

I knew how much you struggled to pay my school fees...

I know I was not even loyal to that

I fail... I fail... I fail...

I have never met your expectation...

I score below average

At that age I can’t earn

So I caged all my wishes..

The day you left us all alone

More than in tears I was in a fear whole day

I felt like everyone around there was to whack me

Until I never knew that we have been paying for the electricity we use

About telephone bills we paid...

I have to take care maa.. All I promised to myself that day!

I know you won’t light up when I’m in dark

You have taught me to light up the dark...

What’s there inside?

These days whenever I feel like eating chocolate or ice creams I go for it, no matter that’s lunch time or dinner, whatever. Even in my refrigerator at least for 4 days a week there will be chocolates, coke or Miranda, biscuits and on freezer ice creams, kulfis.

I’m not stuffing those to give to some neighbour kids or to celebrate some day with friends. As like everyday grocery I purchase those and I eat. I might forget to purchase the weekly grocery items but not those stuffs.

Why is that I'm more particular about those chocos and ice creams?

All I remember is on my school days every morning while waiting for our school bus most of my friends come with their dad or mom. All they get is candy, before the school bus reach us their parents run away to get them. I always move far away from them on that time, I never let them to ask me ‘can I get one for you too?’

In school, we have a store like stationary and as well the chocolates. In every break friends go there to buy chocolates, everybody there have their own turn to treat everyone. I never move with those people. Same happens in canteen, too many items, vada, bread bajji, samosa, onion samosa. I never go if I knew that they are planning to go canteen or store to eat. I say some reason and I’ll stay back in class or go to ground alone.

They do offer to those who are not afford to buy, I never show them that me too the one. I gently avoid that situation by going away, alone.

Even in college apart from travelling expense cost I get Rs.50 as pocket money, monthly. I used to save it to go for movie.

Only once I demanded to get me a Winner brand geometry box that should be on 6^th or 7^th standard. That costs Rs.25, after I got that I really felt bad. I thought I should have used the old one. Even now I don’t know what was my father’s earning. But I know whatever he brings is not enough. I have never seen my mom fighting with my dad for not earning sufficient. They were in love, they talk they laugh every day.

I never want to disturb him by asking such things. I know how hard for him to bring my school fees and I’m not loyal to that. I fail in all the exams except the final annual, no idea how was that happened. So I never want to ask those things. I feel that’s not mandatory so I avoid asking.

But by seeing my friends everyday with that I suffered deep inside, no one know that. I hid that in loud laugh.

I guess that deep sufferings are now stuffed inside my refrigerator.

Feel the feel to be together!

This morning, from terrace I was watching my neighbor playing with stray dogs. Two to three dogs are happily running around him and jumping and tying his legs. He was feeding them the biscuits.

After few minutes I realized that his actual intention is not feeding those dogs. His own dog gone out of his house and he was trying to get it back home. When he tried to call his dog others are coming towards him and getting those biscuits and jumping up on him but his own dog was not even thinking about coming near to him.

Most of the human relations are this way. When we more care about someone, at some point we may feel like they are showing no care as we do. Then we started hating them. We feel like calling them as selfish, they backstabbed us.

The fact is, we like them, to show that we care them and we try to keep a hold on them. In return we started expecting same care and hold from them. Without any request we offered them the care and no sense in expecting the same from them.

The problem is not with the dogs, it’s with us. That dog gets biscuits and enough of food on time, everyday but it loves to be free like those stray dogs. But those dogs eat hardly, sleep under sunny. If that fellow tied up one of that stray dog in his house instead of his own one, after few months even that dog will do the same to him. Though he cares more n feed everything, he is a master, human, not a dog. A dog needs other dog, in this matter.

In any relation you can be possessive but never try to hold them strongly, that will never hurt them. It’ll hurt you more.

Try to understand there is a world after you and me. Everybody loves to go there with everyone. Respect their feelings, thoughts, let them be free.

Anyone can be together with anyone, if we follow compassion. Try understanding that how we want them to be only with us and only for us, they might have some other feel for something. If we can’t feel the feel of other, our expectations with them are bosh.

Do we ever want our own children to play only with us, talk and smile only with us?

If anybody feels bad that I compared human relation with dogs, I’m not gonna ask sorry for that, but this is how I see all n everything. Everyone as soul, not like any government, if a dog get hurt on road it’s not even consider as incident. This is usual for them, but when comes to man, they see it as accident, murder n ends as incident after few years.

Why did I cry?

March 22, 2002 – I would have cried for at least six to seven hours. The reason was my dad passed away. I was fifteen and all I knew that time was everyone have to die …. may be sooner or later. Then what made my eyes shed that much of tears?

I know the reason was not just because he was dead.

Sometime in 2009, I cried all night and I even felt my dad was with me to console me. But this time my eyes let that same tears for a girl, we were in love and for some reason she wants to break our relationship. That girl was still alive and I know any time I can meet her, talk to her and she can get back to me. Still I was crying like the world was going to end after that night.

The reason I realize in was that she is not going to be with me as we were before. That was the almost the same way as how I felt on 2002, March. I cried not because he was dead but because my daddy will not be there for me… not with me ANYMORE….

Whenever I tend to cry or suffer or be sad, people say this is your life, live it. If I am happy and cheerful, they say I’m enjoying my life. Be it whether I am sad or cheerful, I am living my life and not doing anything else. In our plates, salty, bitter and sour foods are served along with sweets. If only sweet makes us feel good, why do we have too many taste buds in our tongue?

I do everything knowingly and at times even without caring who are all around and what they will think. I never regret, instead question myself “why”?

Realizing things always brings wisdom and not just simply knowing everything.

Mistake teaches lesson and lessons in turn gives us knowledge and this leads one to be wealthy, but wherein wealth might end up only just as a pressure if the realization doesn’t take place at any stage in this cycle, like why I did the mistakes? Or why does knowledge lead me to wealth? Or at least why I am wealthy?

Best Thing of All to a Girl

In the recent times, my close friend gave me a CD to check as it cannot be read in his laptop. The disk content is about the grand function that was carried out for his cousin who has just entered into the puberty phase and turned mature. Unfortunately my writer not only read and but played it too. For the First six minutes, the girl seems to be dressed up in different attires like modern, ethnic and so on. The video seems to play for another one hour.

As soon as the first six minutes got over, a question rose in my mind ‘what kind of act was that, that too by her parents?’

I see that as a photo shoot of a model or an actress. There is nothing wrong with that. Their profession is so. But the question is, “Will they allow the same girl, if she likes to do such a photo-shoot after five or six years?”  They do distribute the CDs to their relatives and others proudly now. 

One good reason that seems to fit is that at her marriageable age, others may get a doubt whether the girl is matured or not. My question is” Why the hell these people are not worried/concerned about the boys?”

In olden days, these kind of functions was to invite boy's family by saying that the  girl is ready for marriage as in those days they do marriages at an early age of ten or thirteen. The girl will be isolated from the family and she will be given a separate place to live for the next 14 days. During these days, she will be having separate utensils, bedspreads, etc. Elders will teach her how to stay hygienic. Nobody in the family will use those utensils utilized by the girl. After 14 days, a grand function will be arranged and all the relatives and friends will be invited to perform customary practices. Then the girl will be invited back into the family. This is most likely to remind the child that she is no more a child for some medical and psychological reasons.

In the recent days, we have customized this function as per our convenience and moreover recent day girls know about this well before and it’d be better if parents discuss with them instead of making and distributing CDs.

Revolution, so & so

When leadership messed up with dictatorship, can expect a BOOM. Wherever I hear a term revolution a image that can see from my mind is red roads, guns firing and people with guns (not military). One old man has changed the trend, he is Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi. He became the voice of 350 million. All the millions reacted for his action. A great strategic leader wasted in the name of non-violence. Though he is not a founder of it, he innovated the way of using it against anything. Apart from satyagraha he knew the strategy building.

A 52 years old man took leadership of the Indian National Congress after Gopal Krishnan Gokhale. As it founded by Indian and British members of the Theosophical society (Adyar, Chennai- so the origin of INC is TN) there is no talk about Indian independence by INC until 1930. After 10 years INC declared the Indian independence. Later his move against British was tremulous. He took control of millions of people, made them to come out of their routine and taught to fight without any weapon against weapons. Without any IT connection he connects each and everyone by travelling throughout India.

ISRO is under a direct control of PM, where Manmohan singh has no idea about the scam of two hundred thousand crore. Then about 2G – no paper can go without crossing PM’s table for his signature however again he has no idea about what happened and where it gone wrong.

Then one man cannot be ignored, Netaji. Before going into him a word by Michael Edwardes, the distinguished British historian,

"Only one outstanding personality of India took a different and violent path, and in a sense India owes more to him than to any other man"

He is the man who travels almost half of the world to form an army for liberty. His famous motto is ‘Give me blood and I will give you freedom’.

He was also with INC and elected as leader twice consecutively. However he resigned the post due to the conflict with M.K. Gandhi. Then formed the new party called All India Forward Bloc and continued to call for full and immediate freedom. He merely waited for to take an advantage of British weakness. In that concern he met Soviet Union, Nazi Germany, and Imperial Japan. After all he formed INA in Japan with the Indian prisoners of war, plantation workers from British Malaya, Singapore and southern Asia

Current president did, Prathibha Patil (INC party) spent 205 corers for travel 22 different nations.

Then the other name of revolution is he himself, Che Guevara, was  was an Argentine-Marxist revolutionary, physician, author, intellectual, guerrilla leader, diplomat and military theorist. At age of 22 he started travelling throughout Latin America, that travel showed him the economic inequality, the result of capitalism, monopolism, neocolonialism and imperialism. Only remedy he sees at the time is WORLD REVOLUTION.

He was born in Argentina however he fought for Cuba, Congo and so on. He lived as a man without any boundaries.

Novartis (Switzerland based Pharmaceuticals Company) has raised a patent issue that particular cancer drug should not be manufacture in India as it owned the whole right. The issue is with the Indian Supreme Court. (cost of the drug manufacture in India Rs. 90 however the drug from Swiss cost Rs.1000). The persons arguing in favor of Novartis are P. Chidambaram (current minister of home affairs), Gopal Subramaniam (Former Solicitor General of India – the second most important law officer of the country after attorney general).

Over night one can not have a sibling. There should be parents still alive and they need some time to be with each other. Moreover love and chemistry should sustain between them. After all should wait for at least ten month.

Then how revolution can expect with a little emotion called anger? Every revolution that world experienced so far are started as panic and roadside talk. There is no proper base or strategy at the beginning however always there is reason called bad leadership.

If a group of 15 is talking about a change, at least 5 can expect to react after talk. At last one can continue the action and can form a group of hundreds and thousands world wide.

Revolution begins this way, at least start talking!!!

“Fear leads you to kill, Anger to REVOLUTION”

Oops Professionalism

Professionalism – polished shoe, formal pant, formal shirt, tucked. Tie, should match with shirt. Then of course the belt again should match with the shoe color. If there is a meeting then suit is mandatory. Clean shave or trimmed. These show one as professional with the appearance (here we are talking about the professionalism in appearance alone).

Do one who works near an oven can wear all these stuffs (of course they are not and not expected) then why the HELL that people living in an oven are expected to be like this. This is the reason blog named as ‘Oops Professionalism’.

It may look odd if every one wears sweater, leather jack (like a detective in 80’s film), monkey cap and tight scarf on neck at work place. Hence people in cool countries like UK and US designed a suit and other things. It’s a ninth wonder why the oven countries are like to follow the same dress code, where already people are boiling daily.

Dressing is purely based on culture. Culture is not the one from heaven or hell, it’s the practice that every human started following according to the place and climatic conditions they live.

Another best thing is table manners, eating all nonsense with spoon and fork. Again people lives in minus degree temperature don’t love to keep their hands in water. To avoid such they are using spoon, knife and fork. Then what is the necessary for those who living in oven? They can maintain their body temperature by having contact with water quite often like washing hands before and after. Indus valley (now it’s India) people are (were) the cleanest people and they take bath every day.

Whatever, do and follow things that are comfortable. That is stupid if we follow and practice because people in developed countries are doing.

One last thing, culture is the identity if it’s lost we can never get back. Though we don’t want to practice our own culture try at least to preserve it, don’t destroy it.

Beginning of the beginning

Today is just another day. Nothing is new, same twenty four hours. However why that all need to take a resolution today?

If it’s good why the hell that needs to wait for this day to come and take a decision and do, do it immediately. Then if it’s bad let it go away as soon as realized so.

There are special days for everyone separately because some thing special might happen on that day. However today we can do something that makes us feel happy and keep this day as special as far as you can.

Happy New Year!!!

Dominoes Effect

How a simple man is turning into god and very soon as scoundrel.

If a man declaring himself as a god, not just one who visits him, always it’s in large number. In that crowd one or two may coincidently get heal or good things may start happening, most of the time they started to assuming after they attend the meeting or bajan or mass prayer, whatever.

They would say this to their neighbor or relatives. That message will linked to various situations and end up with good stories to media. As like, a normal death of a person linked to the election results and the party who lost in the pool tries to maintain the standard.

Another best example is play of dominos, when one get hits it pushes every other and rapid fall will happen.

As simple as dominoes effect, simple guru is becoming a GOD. Actually they are not turning; we are making them, assuming them as everything.

We may go to karate classes, music classes and mostly to school, ever we keep their photos in home and do prayer every day. No idea why it’s happening when some one teaches yoga or preaches any religious things.

A god is a god and described as he/she or whatever (no problem in that at least) have no weakness, no guilty and no wishes.

When we come to know that they too have a weakness, everyone call them as scoundrel, cheater.

It’s obvious that when we get everything granted we will try to fulfill all our wishes. It is a very common human nature. When everyone thinks about one that whatever he/she says and does are right and precious. They’ll do exactly ‘whatever’. If ‘that’ whatever is not liked by a set of people then the recent god turns into cheater.

In fact, people whoever has no full faith in god and looking for an instant up in life creating such instant gods and ends up in court and media. Anyway a 'that' god will return, without any doubt.

Happy Tears!

What you do if someone ready to give certain sum amount..?

What is your dream… passion… future plan… what you want to be, where you want to stand after 10 years…? Don’t you know Lakshmi Mittal, Bill Gates, Ambani, Mark Zuckerberg. Don’t you want to be like them…? How far are you…?

We are ready to be a slave, rather then building our own kingdom and becoming a king. Well suited comment for people working with MNC or corporate.

How many of us know a 70 year old man who plants a tree daily and maintaining it, fertilizing them. Doesn’t he know that he won’t be there to enjoy any benefit of his work. There are such people around us they never want to write their name on the tree they planted, never want anyone to thank while they are standing under such trees for shadow, as like we take breath without counting. Do we count how many breath we took today..?

Passion or dream is like our breath, that’s ours, based on each individual. I’m not sure earlier listed people achieved their dreams or not, even they might not be sure. They are still fighting and why we need to set them as our target and struggle to achieve their goals when everyone can dream and have their own capability to build own passion.

Some might be passion towards photography, go on and click. Some love to watch movie, when some love to make it. Some bounded by commitments and do job to fulfill, then they go behind their passion. Even after 40 some times. Age is not at all matters here. No meaning in calling them as slaves, slaves don’t even have right to say that they’re slaves. If they say that, their master might say you’re not a slave you’re a shit. We all have freedom and we bounded with our own company policies, which we should’ve read before joining. Many never do and keep on blaming the company. We are free to move out of company we work today and can go to any company we like. No slave has such thing, then that too includes in FREEDOM.

Investing time on a stone or metal or plastic then earning and earning, keep on doing strategy plan to earn more. Getting a name in a list published by some magazine is passion, then move on with it. Counting gives pleasure only until we count.

Passion differs to each individual. That cannot be plant by seeing neighbor land harvest. Here each soil is different.

We are struggle to be like another man rather then being or building ourselves. It looks like making photocopy. Anywhere original only speaks not duplicates.

Don’t ever put others questions in your mind, because that is their problem. Above questions are someone’s they are asking to us and we are forgetting our question and puzzling with their problems by considering it as us. This is like a dominos effect; just a simple push on a domino makes all others to fall rapidly. Do you remember anyone asking you ‘don’t you want to be like a Vivekananda or Che guevara..?’. Hope no one, because that is more difficult. That should make happen with in us, which are purely towards inner. Where outer all are running behind money with pocket full and they want everyone to do so. Never end!

It’s right if you ask your questions to yourself. Keep on asking, once you find an answer ‘ENOUGH’ for all questions. Only one question remain unanswered that is

‘Why I’m here..?’

If you find the answer, don’t ever try to explain to other, again that’s your individual question and its own answer. That never suits to others. Your explanation might give a chance to them to think that you’re mad.

If any two people who find the answer for their last question meet, they will have nothing to speak only happy tears falls from each of their eyes.

It’s absolutely unnecessary that one’s passion should know by others , no need to throw light on it. Do which brings such happy tears, without any limitations and control.

Walk towards it!