This morning, from terrace I was
watching my neighbor playing with stray dogs. Two to three dogs are happily
running around him and jumping and tying his legs. He was feeding them the
biscuits.
After few minutes I realized that
his actual intention is not feeding those dogs. His own dog gone out of his
house and he was trying to get it back home. When he tried to call his dog
others are coming towards him and getting those biscuits and jumping up on him
but his own dog was not even thinking about coming near to him.
Most of the human relations are
this way. When we more care about someone, at some point we may feel like they
are showing no care as we do. Then we started hating them. We feel like calling
them as selfish, they backstabbed us.
The fact is, we like them, to show
that we care them and we try to keep a hold on them. In return we started
expecting same care and hold from them. Without any request we offered them the
care and no sense in expecting the same from them.
The problem is not with the dogs,
it’s with us. That dog gets biscuits and enough of food on time, everyday but
it loves to be free like those stray dogs. But those dogs eat hardly, sleep
under sunny. If that fellow tied up one of that stray dog in his house instead
of his own one, after few months even that dog will do the same to him. Though
he cares more n feed everything, he is a master, human, not a dog. A dog needs
other dog, in this matter.
In any relation you can be
possessive but never try to hold them strongly, that will never hurt them.
It’ll hurt you more.
Try to understand there is a world
after you and me. Everybody loves to go there with everyone. Respect their
feelings, thoughts, let them be free.
Anyone can be together with anyone,
if we follow compassion. Try understanding that how we want them to be only
with us and only for us, they might have some other feel for something. If we
can’t feel the feel of other, our expectations with them are bosh.
Do we ever want our own children to
play only with us, talk and smile only with us?
If
anybody feels bad that I compared human relation with dogs, I’m not gonna ask sorry for that, but this is how I see all n everything. Everyone as soul, not
like any government, if a dog get hurt on road it’s not even consider as
incident. This is usual for them, but when comes to man, they see it as
accident, murder n ends as incident after few years.
